Friday, March 27, 2009

In Search Of My Bachelorette Pad

I grew up staying in a house with 6 bedrooms, 2 living areas, 2 dining areas, 1 indoor kitchen, 1 outdoor kitchen, 1 extended area for painting, 1 front yard garden, 1 back yard garden and a drive-in big enough for 4 cars when there are only me and my parents, and a stay in helper.

High Ceiling height and space is always a priority to me.
I know what I want when I get married and when I finally have a family.
Something very similar, with additional of a pool would be ideal.
A family which consists of me and my husband and 4 kids (2 boys 2 girls, MFFM)
That is when I get married and have a family.

My parents sold away their wedding gift for me and earned a hugh profit recently.

Today, I finally convinced my parents that I really need my own bachelorette pad.
There are mixed feelings.
While I enjoyed being with them, I yearn for a space called my own.

And I know it will never be this big.
I have to settle for something maybe a 3 rooms apartment.
My bedroom is plainly for sleeping, a super king size bed and nothing else.
A study room for all my books, laptops, entertainment, and 2 massage chairs.
A room for all my art work.
And I won't have a room for my wardrobe.
What should I do?
So, I will need a 4 rooms apartment then.

Presently, I do my paintings in a little glass house at our backyard garden.
Beautiful sun rays and orchids all around.
Maybe, I will have to come back home when I want to paint.
I realized these are the sacrifices to make when you want to have your own place.

I intend to smuggle my helper back to my own place so that I can have food and my clothes wash and iron.
That was all in plan.
Then I realized my parents will probably be coming to my place so often that they might ended up staying at my place because I know they will miss me and worry if I have food.
Dad bought my neighbour place last year, with plans to build a new house for me when I get married so that I will always be near to him.

I am very upset today and it makes me wanting to have my own bachelorette pad more desperately.
I promised to look for a place which is less than 15 mins walk away from my parent's.

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